Yes! You Can End the Yelling and Feel
Calm, Confident and Connected in your parenting…
Even if you have tried other methods – guaranteed!
Have you ever said to yourself…
“I’m so tired of yelling at my kids. I wish I knew how to get them to listen in a healthier way.”
“I know I am teaching my kids to yell and I hate that. I get taken over by my emotions and I just can’t help it!”
“I feel like such a horrible mother after I lose it with my kids. I feel so ashamed and that isn’t how I want to show up for them.”
You’re not alone.
Being a mother is one of the most challenging things we will ever do in our life and many of us are doing this feeling alone and overwhelmed.
And sadly, a lot of moms struggle because they feel too ashamed of their yelling and they don’t know how to talk about what is going on, so they stay silent.
Can you see it? This cycle of shame and feeling like a horrible mother is making you more vulnerable and sensitive which means you are more likely to yell and lose it!
Here’s what you need to know:
Yelling is a symptom of underlying issues and an invitation to look within and see what needs nurturing and tending to. It’s a message that something is out of alignment and needs your attention. In order to end the yelling you need to learn this:
You must learn how to offer yourself love and compassion for the real reasons you are yelling –
or the pain and suffering will continue for both you and your children.
I can’t stress this enough.
If you’re not feeling calm and grounded in your parenting, trying to stop yelling with the same ineffective way is not the answer.
If you want to feel calm, confident and connected in your relationships and parenting, you must learn what is really going on with your yelling and tend to the parts of you that need some love.
Loving yourself even when you yell and offering yourself compassion when life gets messy is key so you can stay grounded and respond to your children.
Then you will be able to meet their needs, challenges, in a way that cultivates feelings of calm, joy, and connection.
Sooner or later, every mom comes to the same realization:
Responding, not reacting, to your children is what will create a healthy relationship and help them develop into who they are meant to be
– that will make them thrive.
I know this because of my own past struggles with yelling, and through the work with my clients.
I have witnessed my own personal transformation in parenting – from a mom who had more temper tantrums than my children to now being able to respond to my children’s needs with presence and attunement.
I have also seen my client’s breakthroughs –moms who felt overwhelmed and exhausted and reacted to their child’s behavior with yelling, now they feel calmer, more peace and joy in their parenting.
I have written about these shifts in my blogs and best-selling book Unlock Your Parenting Potential: The Key to More Joy, Peace, and Connection, and have developed coaching programs to support moms in their journey.
Over the years I have worked with moms and the one thing that I see time and again is…
The lack of awareness of what the real sources of their yelling is, how to support themselves after a meltdown, re-connect with their children and know how to talk to their kids!
I feel heartbroken seeing so many moms hating themselves and feeling completely overwhelmed and stuck in the cycle of yelling. Being a mom can be such an amazing experience and I want nothing more than for you to feel a deep connection with your kids and parent from your inner truth and wisdom.
Which is exactly why I want to help. So I created an incredible program that will take you step by step to discover the real reasons you yell, how to offer yourself compassion after you lose it, and some powerful parenting strategies that will create genuine connection and love.
Everything you need to End the Yelling and start to feel calmer, more confident and connected with yourself and your children
End the Yelling with Compassion is a self-paced, online group coaching program designed to help you end the yelling – FAST.
All of the course materials are immediately available upon registration
within my membership site and you will have unlimited lifetime access!
PDFs of Slides
Transcripts of Videos
Weekly LIVE calls with me to get your questions answered
Private Facebook Group with support, bonus content, and discussions
Here’s Exactly What You’ll Learn in each Module
INTRODUCTION AND GETTING STARTED:
The 3 Real Reasons Moms Yell
The Yelling Quiz Assessment
All About Self-Care
To get you started in the program you’ll be offered:
- A training video on The 3 Real Reasons Moms Yell: and what to do with the shame and guilt
- The Expanded Yelling Quiz assessment so you know the top 3 sources of your yelling
- A personalized report based on your scores that includes specific practices created for you that will help you start making shifts right away
- A video lesson on why self-care is the key to ending the yelling
- A process for you to identify what self-care activities you need to add into your routine
WHO YOU TRULY ARE:
The Range of Your Emotions
Your Inner Child
Creating Your Sacred Tray
In order to understand your yelling, you need to learn about the different types of emotions you experience and learn about your inner child.
In this module you’ll:
- Learn about the different parts that make up who you are, like your inner child, ego, and essence
- Discover the full range of your emotions to bring more self-awareness
- How to identify the different states you are in; when you are in your child versus when you are in your adult self
- Learn how to articulate what state you are in so others can support you
- Learn how to create your Sacred Tray that you will use throughout the program to support your healing journey
THE REPARENTING WORK:
The 5 Step Awareness and Healing Process
Releasing your anger
After moms yell, most say they feel horrible. This feeling is what actually keeps you yelling so learning to offer yourself compassion is what will bring awareness and healing – this is how to end the yelling.
In this module you’ll:
- Discover a simple 5 step process that will increase your awareness of why you yell
- Learn what your real needs are and how to meet them yourself
- Learn a powerful process to offer yourself compassion after a yelling situation that will guide you to shed the shame and help you feel whole
- Learn how to release any residual anger you are feeling so you can move into the healing process more effectively and open-hearted
KEY PARENTING SKILLS:
Clearing and repairing the relationship
Dealing with your child’s behavior
Creating and Holding Boundaries
A big mistake many moms make is not knowing how to reconnect with their child after they have lost it. And, they also don’t know how to address some of their child’s behavior that really does need to shift.
In this module you’ll:
- Discover a simple step-by-step process to clear and repair the relationship with your child
- Learn how and when to have a conversation that will re-connect you and your child
- Learn about how to address your child’s behavior and support them to make changes
- Learn how to ask powerful questions so you can learn more about your child’s needs
- Learn how to listen and hold space for your child so they feel more open to sharing with you
- Understand the two types of boundaries so you can make conscious decisions about what is important for your family
- Discover how to hold the boundaries so you feel confident in your parenting
DEEPER AWARENESS WITH:
Knowing your Triggers
Letting go of Expectations
Completion and Next Steps
In order to continue your journey to end the yelling you need to know your triggers, become aware of your expectations and have a daily plan to move forward.
In this module you’ll:
- Learn a process to discover your triggers so you bring more awareness to your actions
- Discover a way to choose a new way to respond so you feel calm and grounded even in the chaos
- Learn how to let go of the expectations that are backfiring on you, and
- Have an opportunity to do reflect on your progress so you can expand your awareness
- Have a way forward so you can manifest a new way of being with yourself and your children
GET STARTED NOW
ENROLL NOW AND YOU’LL GET THESE
ADDITIONAL BONUSES – FREE
I’m going to upgrade your quiz to my online version that has an additional 15 questions that’ll give you a more accurate assessment of why you’re yelling. You’ll also receive a personalized report that shows you your exact scores and it includes a series of coaching exercises that you can try out at home. These coaching practices are prioritized for you based on your scores and are simple to apply right away!
(Value $19.99) Included in the program!
I’ll also include/a free eBook version of my Best-Selling book Unlock Your Parenting Potential: The Key to More Joy, Peace, and Connection.”Its articulate chapters will help parents to journey through their own process in a steady, yet insightful way, allowing them to reach a resolution of much-needed enlightenment and clarity.” ~ Excerpt from Foreword written by Dr. Shefali Tsabary, Best Selling Author of The Awakened Family, The Conscious Parent, and Out of Control.
(Value $4.99) Included in the program!
What Clients say about the Program
Nicki offered so much insight, clarity, compassion and love throughout this program. It has transformed the ways I ‘mom’, and my family is so much better for it. Nicki’s expertise and wisdom, along with the high quality level of instruction, intentionally-designed course material and supportive community of moms, make this program so powerful. Any parent who feels ‘stuck’ in their current way of parenting need to take this program NOW!
There are so many challenges involved in parenting that leave you feeling ill equipped. My frustrations often resulted in yelling at my kids perpetuating a cycle of shame and embarrassment. Nicki’s program has given me ways to appreciate myself as a mom and a toolkit to be more of the mother I want to be, calm and confident.
Nicki’s teachings helped me understand where the yelling was coming from during which many options of possible change was offered. I felt held with competence, empathy, and acceptance while all along honoring my dignity and that of my children. This program is a gift I gave myself that continues to benefit me and others. I want to thank you Nicki for your dedication, time, and love. I truly appreciate you and your work.
What the Experts say about Nicki’s Work
Nicki has created a wonderful series of interventions based on my books The Conscious Parent and Out of Control. Her strategies are easy to follow, direct and effective. They are a valuable addition to those who wish to delve deeper into the art and philosophy of conscious parenting.
Dr. Shefali Tsabary, Oprah’s go-to parenting expert, internationally acclaimed Psychologist and author of “The Conscious Parent,” “Out of Control” and “The Awakened Family.”
The Coaching Program that Nicki designed for me proved to be a life-changing experience. It was personalized and focused on the goals of my own family. I gained a whole new perspective on my parenting while learning new skills that I could apply when facing challenging moments with my children. The program helped me to understand myself better and understand my children thus bringing more peace and connection with each other. Nicki is an amazing coach who is in-tuned, compassionate and supportive every step of the way. From the bottom of my heart – Thank you!
Violetta Borowski, Spiritual Counsellor
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